Support during the 1st year after a loss is crucial
Take comfort in knowing you are not alone!
I understand how it feels for grief to feel invisible, to be offered hurtful cliches when you just need someone to sit with you, or to be at loss for words that will truly comfort someone.
That’s why I can help you to be seen and heard, to make sure your grief is honored, and you are treated with empathy and respect.


Don't tell me to get over it: A Father’s Love, A Daughter’s Grief
Is a memoir of my personal reflections based on the experience of losing my father. Coming Soon! Join the waitlist to hear more updates!

Meet Michelle A. Gil, aka The Grief Curator!
Sometimes, it feels like no one understands what you are going through. And while grief is intensely personal, it is also something we will all experience at some point. When my dad passed away in 2018, my friends and family were often unsure how to offer the support I needed.
Since then, I have taken my intimate relationship with grief and channeled that energy into helping others navigate that first confusing year. Whether you’ve lost a loved one or you know someone who is grieving and want to know the best way to support them, I can help.
- Podcast: "Don't Tell Me To Get Over It!"
- Private Facebook Group
- Memoir on my personal grief journey
- Private Journal Workshop (2nd Cohort coming January 2025)
- Quaterly Newsletter
How to Support a Friend Who is Grieving

Michelle is an engaging public speaker,
adept at holding space for both those who have suffered a significant loss and their loved ones.
She is passionate about curating sacred spaces where grief and loss are honored and treated as a normal part of life. She shares her own story of grief and loss while listening to the personal stories of her audience.
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